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Post by zzeltootz on Sept 19, 2007 17:35:07 GMT 7
If you can move past forgiveness and making sure the Cheater understands how devastating their act was, it’s time for some serious work to begin on mending the relationship. It’s like going back to square one. You have to be sure the conditions that may have caused or allowed for the betrayal are eradicated from your relationship. For example, the person who your partner cheated with has to be out of the picture. No friendship, once in a while meet ups or anything.
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Post by zzeltootz on Sept 19, 2007 17:35:48 GMT 7
The person who cheats doesn’t easily fit into a single mold. There are those who will cheat once and never repeat the mistake. Some will continue the practice until they feel satiated. Others make a lifestyle out of being unfaithful. If you are considering how to handle a cheating partner, you must first decide how likely it is that they will repeat the same behavior over again.
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Post by caasi on Sept 21, 2007 10:20:41 GMT 7
But there are some people who just loss there love or unsatisfied about the love that has been given to them. This is why they cheat.
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Post by zzeltootz on Sept 21, 2007 18:34:27 GMT 7
No.. sometimes that's not the reason why..
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Post by zzeltootz on Sept 21, 2007 18:35:33 GMT 7
most men and women cheat on their partners at some point in a relationship, and they need to be informed that cheating has at least an ounce of redeeming value. Cheating is not always bad; surprisingly, it can help to improve current relationships.
I'm not implying that every man should go out and be unfaithful, nor am I implying that all men cheat on every woman they date. All it means is that at some point, the little head overpowers the big head and men venture into forbidden territory.
haha^^^
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Post by zzeltootz on Sept 21, 2007 18:37:02 GMT 7
another explanation:
Have you ever been cheated on??? I have, and I can say that NEVER is cheating healthy for a relationship. It is devastating. It brings feelings of abandonment, betrayal, mistrust and a million other things that I could never describe.
yes that's true..
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Post by caasi on Sept 22, 2007 13:35:03 GMT 7
But not only guys cheat, but also the ladies out there. I'm not saying most of time but what I'm saying is nobody's perfect.
And for the question you're giving me, quite honestly, this is the last time I'm gonna say it. I've said it once, I'll say it again. I never had a relationship with a girl before. My life is too sad and too bold. I'm ready to die anytime. If dying is not a sin, I've died a long long time ago.
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Post by zzeltootz on Sept 22, 2007 22:18:10 GMT 7
aww..
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